make clientwr not try to connect (left to reader), changed some timing stuff,...

make clientwr not try to connect (left to reader), changed some timing stuff, issue with statusserver and connection down..., added optional cacheexpiry option for tls blocks

git-svn-id: https://svn.testnett.uninett.no/radsecproxy/trunk@398 e88ac4ed-0b26-0410-9574-a7f39faa03bf